Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Alversa Williams Lee, 1911-2007

This is a time of sadness and reflection for the Williams-Rivers Family. We have lost one of our most beloved family members, Alversa Williams Lee made her transition on Tuesday October 9, 2007, in Memphis, Tennessee. Mother, sister, wife, cousin, aunt, sister-in-law, grandmother, great-grandmother--She was a matriarch of our family. Aunt Alversa was a driving force behind the Williams-Rivers Family Reunion which has occurred every even numbered year since the late 1970s. She was also one of our Family Griots, who shared her vast knowledge of family history with us all, through her writings in the family reunion booklets and many personal conversations. Her insights are among those that have made the Descendants of Mandi website possible.

She was born near Brownsville Tennessee in 1911, into a very large family. She was the forth child, and oldest girl born to Dennis Williams and Luella Short Williams. Luella was Dennis’ second wife and at the time of her birth, Alversa had 15 older siblings. The family would later grow to a total of 21 siblings. She later married Robert Lee, and they had a large family of their own, 14 kids in all. Over the years she became a kind of mother to us all. It always amazed me that she knew and could remember all the names of members of our family—as I could scarcely imagine keeping up with the names of 14 kids, much less all the cousins, etc. that she had stored in her brain. She was a sharp woman, and remained so, right into her 90s.

With her passing, I was reminded of a quote on the importance of elders and ancestors in our families. The quote is from Alex Haley's commentary in the acknowledgements of his best selling novel “Roots.” Haley said, "Today it is rightly said that when a griot dies, it is as if a library has burned to the ground. The griot symbolizes how all human ancestry goes back to some place, some time, where there was no writing. Then, the memories and the mouths of ancient elders was the only way that early histories of mankind got passed along...for all of us to know who we are."

I think it is fitting that we honor Aunt Alversa with a quote from Alex Haley, as he was an acquaintance of hers, from nearby Henning Tennessee, and he helped inspire her to pursue her quest for a family reunion in the late 1970s after the phenomenal success of his book. I imagine that now, the two of them will be enjoying deep conversations about the importance of history and family to this ongoing journey we’re all traversing.

Our related sister website, The Short Austin Family Tree has also placed a Memorium to Aunt Alversa on it's Elders Page: (the page was up until October 31 2007, it has now been removed)

It can be found at http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/elders_page.html

Another tribute, written by her Granddaughter Intisar Abioto, can be found at the PEOPLE COULD FLY Website Blog.

Pray for us in the days ahead.

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Monday, May 16, 2005

Reply from the Short Austin Family Tree

In just a few hours I got a reply...from Lamont Beauregard, Short / Austin Family tree.


Hi Eric,

You've made my day! Our ancestors in heaven must be smiling down at us.
I was as much pleased as surprised to hear from you. Prior to your e-mail the only information available to me on the Short/Williams side of our family was very limited. Now, thanks to you, I can add a lot of missing information.

I've just spent the past hour viewing your web site (with a deep sense of pride) and I must say, maybe even a little bit of jealousy. I must admit that my skills at web design, (I'm self taught), are quite limited and hopefully I can learn some pointers from you.

At the moment I'm somewhat at a lost words, or perhaps I should say in a "state of shock" so I'll make this brief, but I'm hoping we can combine our resources and tell all of our family's generations, present and future who we are.

Your Cuz,

Lamont


Short/Austin Family Tree
www.shortausatinfamilytree.com

Short/Austin Family Reunion 2005
http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/reunionflier.html

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Making contact with distant cousins

While I was creating the Descendants of Mandi Genealogy Website, I did some searching on the Web based on key family names. One day as I entered some family names and browsed the results, I was stunned to find an exact match on what appeared to be someone else's family tree site. I made a mental note that as soon as I got our site up and running, I would contact the other site's webmaster and let him know that there was family on the Web.

Today, three days after lauching the new website, I kept my promise to myself. I sent the following note to Lamont Beauregard of the Short/Austin Family Tree Website-- Subject Line: My Website, Your Website, Our Family:


Hello cousin Lamont!

Your website-- http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/The Short Austin
Family Treeis fantastic!!! ...and I am your distant cousin. Our Common relative is Silla Short.

My name is Eric J Williams and I live in Chicago IL. I came upon your
website a while back, and realized that our families overlap to a
considerable degree. I am the great-grandson of Luella Short and the
great-great-great-grandson of Silla Short.

I also have a family tree website charting the Williams and Rivers
Family
of Haywood County Tennessee. Our website
( http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/ ) is very new...just
launched last week...though I have been building the Gedcom files for
several weeks from paper charts the family has done for family reunion
booklets and conversations with family members. I would love to hear
what you think about our new website.

If you click the link below, you can see and trace my relationship to
the Shorts who appear in your Short/Ausitin website.

http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/Records/INDIs/II0965.html

My grandfather, Lemuel Williams was the son of Luella Short. I was
very happy to find your webite as I was in the process of launching
our Williams-Rivers Family Tree website-- called Descendants of Mandi.
Your site will allow me to fill in many blanks about my
great-grandmother's family.

In the spirit of your message on the Short Austin website, I've
included a few notes which point out some missing or inaccurate spots
in your family tree--specifically charting our branch the Henry Short
family.

Here is a family record for Luella Short and Dennis Williams--my
great-grandmother and great-grandfather... notice the third child (my
uncle Donald), who your family tree identifies as Darner...which was
his nickname, click Donald's link for the note on his nickname).

http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/Records/FAMs/FF010.html

your page is:

http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/lueellashortpage.html

Here is a family record for Alversa Williams and Robert Edward Lee
(you'll find there are two missing children for them in your page for
Aunt Alversa). Click the link and you will find them here---Sandra
Faye
and Lewis Edward) the correct place for these two is between
Wesley Gene and Brenda Aleece.

http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/Records/FAMs/FF279.html

your page is:

http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/alversawilliamepage.html

You'll also find that our new site contains considerable additional
info on offspring for the children of Dennis Williams and Luella
Short...enough to keep you busy for quite some time.

I would, however, be open to sending you a gedcom file which you could
merg into your existing file to pick up the additonal info...but we
can talk about that later. I will be picking up considerable info from
your site as well. Maybe we could swap files at some point and save
each other considerable typing.

Anyway, Lamont, I was glad to find you, and I hope to meet at some
point in the future.

Sincerely

Eric J. Williams
http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/
ericjw33@gmail.com

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