Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Thanksgiving: The perfect time to fill out your Family Tree

Thanksgiving is a wonderful holiday. It's a holiday that's got a lot going for it. Not only is it a chance to spend time with loved ones and family, but it's got football, good food, and an opportunity for lots of good conversation. Because most families will have many different generations in one place on Thanksgiving Day, it's also the perfect opportunity to interview senior family members about your family's history. The oral history that is shared at holidays like this can be used to create or fill out your family tree.

Sharing Family stories is powerful for several reasons.

1) It begins the process of younger family members knowing where they came from.

2) It allows those of us who are genealogy buffs to uncover another story or two which may not have been mentioned at past gatherings, providing further clues in our search for family-related facts.

3) It is a chance to gather clues to lesser known but equally important side of family history: THE FAMILY MEDICAL HISTORY. As we talk about family members who have passed away, often we will get little bits of information which are valuable in predicting health challenges for our living family members.

For example: a few years ago, in my family, someone recalled that one of my grandmother's had a baby sister who had died very young. Upon further questioning we found that she'd died of pneumonia. At that same time, a cousin was going through a period of Illness with her young child, which was eventually diagnosed as cystic fibrosis-- a rare disease among African Americans. But piecing together, the story of my grandmother's sister caused someone else to remember another earlier ancestor who lost three children to pneumonia. We realized that the cystic fibrosis gene had been showing up in our family every generation or two for many, many generations--the way that many other African American Families have the Sickle Cell trait.

A friend and former co-worker of mine named Karen Pallarito wrote an article which was picked up by FORBES, among others, that suggests that we all add family health history questions to our after-dinner conversation at Thanksgiving. Pallarito suggests that important information can be gleaned on family tendencies toward high cholesterol, diabetes, cancer and heart attack as well as chronic childhood diseases and birth defects.

She pointed out that U.S. health officials are urging us to ask questions: not just about relationships and life stories, but about causes of death and major health challenges. It could have a direct impact on our own health. Everybody, should begin tracing their medical roots this holiday season. Asking relatives to help fill in the blanks of your family medical history could be one of the most important things you do to predict your risk for developing such chronic conditions as heart disease, stroke, diabetes, and cancer, as Pallarito reported.

This concept was covered a couple of years ago in Eastman's Online Genealogy Newsletter http://blog.eogn.com/eastmans_online_genealogy/ but it can never be repeated enough.

So after dinner find out how your great-grand father died ...and while you are at it, be sure to get another civil rights story from your aunt, and another good war story from your favorite uncle.

See the entire story at the link below:

http://news.healingwell.com/index.php?p=news1&id=522236

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Monday, May 16, 2005

Reply from the Short Austin Family Tree

In just a few hours I got a reply...from Lamont Beauregard, Short / Austin Family tree.


Hi Eric,

You've made my day! Our ancestors in heaven must be smiling down at us.
I was as much pleased as surprised to hear from you. Prior to your e-mail the only information available to me on the Short/Williams side of our family was very limited. Now, thanks to you, I can add a lot of missing information.

I've just spent the past hour viewing your web site (with a deep sense of pride) and I must say, maybe even a little bit of jealousy. I must admit that my skills at web design, (I'm self taught), are quite limited and hopefully I can learn some pointers from you.

At the moment I'm somewhat at a lost words, or perhaps I should say in a "state of shock" so I'll make this brief, but I'm hoping we can combine our resources and tell all of our family's generations, present and future who we are.

Your Cuz,

Lamont


Short/Austin Family Tree
www.shortausatinfamilytree.com

Short/Austin Family Reunion 2005
http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/reunionflier.html

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Making contact with distant cousins

While I was creating the Descendants of Mandi Genealogy Website, I did some searching on the Web based on key family names. One day as I entered some family names and browsed the results, I was stunned to find an exact match on what appeared to be someone else's family tree site. I made a mental note that as soon as I got our site up and running, I would contact the other site's webmaster and let him know that there was family on the Web.

Today, three days after lauching the new website, I kept my promise to myself. I sent the following note to Lamont Beauregard of the Short/Austin Family Tree Website-- Subject Line: My Website, Your Website, Our Family:


Hello cousin Lamont!

Your website-- http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/The Short Austin
Family Treeis fantastic!!! ...and I am your distant cousin. Our Common relative is Silla Short.

My name is Eric J Williams and I live in Chicago IL. I came upon your
website a while back, and realized that our families overlap to a
considerable degree. I am the great-grandson of Luella Short and the
great-great-great-grandson of Silla Short.

I also have a family tree website charting the Williams and Rivers
Family
of Haywood County Tennessee. Our website
( http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/ ) is very new...just
launched last week...though I have been building the Gedcom files for
several weeks from paper charts the family has done for family reunion
booklets and conversations with family members. I would love to hear
what you think about our new website.

If you click the link below, you can see and trace my relationship to
the Shorts who appear in your Short/Ausitin website.

http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/Records/INDIs/II0965.html

My grandfather, Lemuel Williams was the son of Luella Short. I was
very happy to find your webite as I was in the process of launching
our Williams-Rivers Family Tree website-- called Descendants of Mandi.
Your site will allow me to fill in many blanks about my
great-grandmother's family.

In the spirit of your message on the Short Austin website, I've
included a few notes which point out some missing or inaccurate spots
in your family tree--specifically charting our branch the Henry Short
family.

Here is a family record for Luella Short and Dennis Williams--my
great-grandmother and great-grandfather... notice the third child (my
uncle Donald), who your family tree identifies as Darner...which was
his nickname, click Donald's link for the note on his nickname).

http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/Records/FAMs/FF010.html

your page is:

http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/lueellashortpage.html

Here is a family record for Alversa Williams and Robert Edward Lee
(you'll find there are two missing children for them in your page for
Aunt Alversa). Click the link and you will find them here---Sandra
Faye
and Lewis Edward) the correct place for these two is between
Wesley Gene and Brenda Aleece.

http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/Records/FAMs/FF279.html

your page is:

http://www.shortaustinfamilytree.com/alversawilliamepage.html

You'll also find that our new site contains considerable additional
info on offspring for the children of Dennis Williams and Luella
Short...enough to keep you busy for quite some time.

I would, however, be open to sending you a gedcom file which you could
merg into your existing file to pick up the additonal info...but we
can talk about that later. I will be picking up considerable info from
your site as well. Maybe we could swap files at some point and save
each other considerable typing.

Anyway, Lamont, I was glad to find you, and I hope to meet at some
point in the future.

Sincerely

Eric J. Williams
http://www.descendantsofmandi.com/
ericjw33@gmail.com

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